In Support of Our Children. Help heal ADHD, Obsessive Compulsive behaviors , Bulimia, Anorexia and Addictions

We really are the ones that make our children's lives dramatic in good or bad ways. Our inner tension levels directly affect our children. I can't stress this enough as I see this in my life and in the lives of those I work with on a regular basis. I don't go in for wringings of the hands (or worse yet, indiscriminate meds ) with sayings like " well what can we do? we tried very hard to instill good values in so-and-so, we have given them all the breaks we never had , we are open minded like our parents never were with us, we have fostered their interests, etc, etc, etc. "

I simply don't buy that there is nothing they haven't tried because I am a parent as well and I know that when I am calm on the inside, so are my sons calm in terms of drama. I am not talking about calm on the outside - as in what the world sees - since many of us can put that exterior on fairly easily and carry on "normal, everyday" lives that look pretty darn good. But what is roiling underneath that? That is what our children are taking on the chin. When either myself or my husband are not calm enough -and there is a threshold for each family I find - then things begin to step up in pace. If circumstances get to the point where they spin out of control we then must expend all our efforts towards putting out those constant fires, with no time left for creating the solid granite that will not allow them to start there in the first place.

I ask any parent who has one of the above problems with your child and feel that you are truly out of ideas to call and schedule a 30 minute consult with me . During that time we shall look and see how calm your emotional body is, how calm it has been since the age of puberty and how open your emotional body is with your problematic child's' emotional body. This should be standard testing protocol alongside all those very costly tests the hospitals do on our children to reach a verdict of ADHD. There is never a focus on we parents ourselves, however, beyond how we can help initiate positive reinforcements and such. This is why there have been no real answers or true cures in my opinion. All of the correct "subjects " are not being focused upon. We parents and our family lineages who are absolutely part of the correct focus. We might also take a look at your parents' emotional bodies while we are at it and may delve into your and your spouses limbic system. This may seem harsh for me to state things this way , however, I hold myself to these same standards. The disorders that our children face more and more these days are harsh taskmasters. From what I have seen in my own life and work, we parents can help our children a great deal by delving bravely into our own boundary issues. It's going to give you a new lease on life, even as it gives your child a new start.

And I say this in support of our children, who take the rap - and the meds AND the extensive therapy - all the time for dysfunctional energy patterns that begin with we and our ancestry. I am not being judgmental. But I can tell you from my own personal experiences that there will be surprises in store for you and you will not like to hear them. If you want to help your child in perhaps the best way possible, you will want to face the information anyway. I can also tell you from personal experience that we will set our children free from ADHD, depression, compulsive behaviors or addictions by setting ourselves free . We may not have the same exact dilemmas as our children are facing, but we surely have some major emotional distress that we are treading water on constantly - and that stress is being passed to our kids , whether we "think" we are or whether we will it to be otherwise. Using our Will-center (solar plexus) to affect change in our Sacral or emotional is like trying to eat cereal with a fork. It's just not as efficient as focusing ON Sacral itself . Use the right tool for the job is a well known very wise approach. . Using the right focus in energywork is like using the right tool. Emotional body work / sacral focus - with the parents as well the the child - is pivotal to emotional clarity. And Emotional clarity is pivotal to releasing patterns that cause ADHD, addictions and obsessive compulsive disorders (amongst many others!) This is how we shift genetic patterns in my opinion and experience .

We are our children's teachers in all the important ways , and most of those ways are silent - such as in how clean our emotional body is and how well we set personal boundaries that do not sway with every other person we come into contact with . If we want to teach our children this, then we must learn it ourselves. I have found it is this simple. Please write or call if you resonate with this and have a question about it. If you are ready to take the first step on a pivotal new learning process , please call to schedule a 30 minute consult where we will go over your emotional body and the flow dynamics between your emotional body and your child's'. I can also give you a basic indication of inner tension level, both yours and your child's'. ( I can tell you from experience that many of us do not know how seriously ramped up our inner tension levels are or we would never be so glib as we are about it ....for example , statements like " oh yes I'm always stressed , but that's life today!)

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